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Divorce and remarriage: what the Bible says

What Christian writers said, from about AD 100 to 1930.

37 passages · 25 writers · 11 centuries

The short answer

Justin Martyr, Athenagoras, Origen, Tertullian, and Jerome say that marrying a divorced person, or marrying again while the former spouse lives, is adultery. Augustine says separation does not make the marriage void and that only the death of the husband or wife looses the bond, and Aquinas and the Council of Trent say adultery does not dissolve the marriage. Basil says a woman abandoned by her husband ought to remain as she is, the Council of Carthage says a man or woman put away should not be married to another but remain as they are or be reconciled, and the Apostolic Canons excommunicate a layman who puts away his wife and marries another. The Westminster Confession says it is lawful for the innocent party to marry another after a divorce for adultery, Robertson says Jesus by implication allows remarriage of the innocent party, and Hodge says a justifiable divorce dissolves the marriage tie. Aquinas says a believer may be united to another in marriage if the unbelieving spouse refuses to cohabit without insult to the Creator, Basil says a woman who unwillingly marries a man deserted by his wife and is then repudiated is not prohibited from marriage, and Leo says the marriage of husbands carried off into captivity and their wives must be restored when the husbands return.

No remarriage while the other spouse lives: early writers

13 passages · 9 writers · 1st c. to 400s

Justin Martyr, Athenagoras, Origen, Tertullian, Jerome, Basil, and Augustine say a person who marries again while the former spouse lives, or marries a divorced person, commits adultery. Hermas says the husband ought not to marry another when his wife has been put away, and Chrysostom asks how a man can join himself to another while his wife is yet alive.

c. 155 · Justin Martyr, First Apology 15

And, “Whosoever shall marry her that is divorced from another husband, committeth adultery.” And, “There are some who have been made eunuchs of men, and some who were born eunuchs, and some who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake; but all cannot receive this saying.” So that all who, by human law, are twice married, are in the eye of our Master sinners, and those who look upon a woman to lust after her. For not only he who in act commits adultery is rejected by Him, but also he who desires to commit adultery: since not only our works, but also our thoughts, are open before God.

c. 210–217 · Tertullian, On Monogamy (De monogamia) 9

Adultery is (this): when, the two having been—in whatsoever way—disjoined, other—nay, rather alien—flesh is mingled (with either): flesh concerning which it cannot be affirmed, “This is flesh out of my flesh, and this bone out of my bones.” For this, once for all done and pronounced, as from the beginning, so now too, cannot apply to “other” flesh. Accordingly, it will be without cause that you will say that God wills not a divorced woman to be joined to another man “while her husband liveth,” as if He do will it “when he is dead;” whereas if she is not bound to him when dead, no more is she when living.

No remarriage while the other spouse lives: later writers

5 passages · 5 writers · 1200s to 1800s

Aquinas says adultery does not dissolve a marriage and that it is unlawful to marry again while the other lives, and the Council of Trent says the bond of matrimony cannot be dissolved on account of adultery and that neither party can contract another marriage during the other's lifetime. Calvin says marriage is not dissolved by divorces or dissensions and that those not received by their husbands remain bound so that they cannot take other husbands. Barnes says no one separated from her husband can marry again unless there is a regular divorce according to the law of Christ, and Fausset says a new marriage is not to be added to the sin of separation.

c. 1252–1256 · Thomas Aquinas, Supplement to the Third Part of the Summa Theologica Suppl., q. 62, a. 5, co.

I answer that, Nothing supervenient to marriage can dissolve it: wherefore adultery does not make a marriage cease to be valid. For, according to Augustine (De Nup. et Concup. i, 10), "as long as they live they are bound by the marriage tie, which neither divorce nor union with another can destroy." Therefore it is unlawful for one, while the other lives, to marry again.

1546 · John Calvin, Commentary on 1 Corinthians, part 1 (chapters 1-14) 7.11

But if she depart That this is not to be understood of those who have been put away for adultery, is evident from the punishment that followed in that case; for it was a capital crime even by the Roman laws, and almost by the common law of nations. But as husbands frequently divorced their wives, either because their manners were not congenial, or because their personal appearance did not please them, or because of some offense; and as wives, too, sometimes deserted their husbands on account of their cruelty, or excessively harsh and dishonorable treatment, he says that marriage is not dissolved by divorces or dissensions of that nature. For it is an agreement that is consecrated by the name of God, which does not stand or fall according to the inclination of men, so as to be made void whenever we may choose. The sum is this: other contracts, as they depend on the mere inclination of men, are in like manner dissolved by that same inclination; but those who are connected by marriage are no longer free, so as to be at liberty, if they change their mind, to break in pieces the pledge, (as the expression is,) and go each of them elsewhere in quest of a new connection. For if the rights of nature cannot be dissolved, much less can this, which, as we have said already, is preferred before the principal tie of nature. But as to his commanding the wife, who is separated from her husband, to remain unmarried, he does not mean by this that separation is allowable, nor does he give permission to the wife to live apart from her husband; but if she has been expelled from the house, or has been put away, she must not think that even in that case she is set free from his power; for it is not in the power of a husband to dissolve marriage. He does not therefore give permission here to wives to withdraw, of their own accord, from their husbands, or to live away from their husband’s establishment, as if they were in a state of widowhood; but declares, that even those who are not received by their husbands, continue to be bound, so that they cannot take other husbands.

1546–1563 · Council of Trent, Canons and Dogmatic Decrees of the Council of Trent s24.can

Canon VII.—If any one saith, that the Church has erred, in that she hath taught, and doth teach, in accordance with the evangelical and apostolical doctrine, that the bond of matrimony can not be dissolved on account of the adultery of one of the married parties; and that both, or even the innocent one who gave not occasion to the adultery, can not contract another marriage during the lifetime of the other; and, that he is guilty of adultery, who, having put away the adulteress, shall take another wife, as also she, who, having put away the adulterer, shall take another husband: let him be anathema. Canon VIII.—If any one saith, that the Church errs, in that she declares that, for many causes, a separation may take place between husband and wife, in regard of bed, or in regard of cohabitation, for a determinate or for an indeterminate period: let him be anathema.

1834 · Albert Barnes, Notes on the Bible: 1 Corinthians 7.11

If not, she should not violate her vows to her husband so far as to marry another. It is evident that this rule is still binding, and that no one who has separated from her husband, whatever be the cause, unless there be a regular divorce, according to the law of Christ Mat 5:32, can be at liberty to marry again.

1871 · A. R. Fausset, Commentary Critical and Explanatory on 1 Corinthians 7.11

If the sin of separation has been committed, that of a new marriage is not to be added (Mt 5:32).

Remarriage of the innocent party

6 passages · 5 writers · 1500s to 1900s

The Westminster Confession says it is lawful for the innocent party to marry another after a divorce for adultery, and Robertson says Jesus by implication allows remarriage of the innocent party. Ryle says he does not see that Christ regards the remarriage of someone divorced because of fornication as adultery, and Hodge says a justifiable divorce dissolves the marriage tie. Knox says that unless adultery be committed, marriage, once lawfully contracted, may not be dissolved at man's pleasure.

1647 · Westminster Assembly, The Westminster Confession of Faith 24.5

Adultery or fornication committed after a contract, being detected before marriage, giveth just occasion to the innocent party to dissolve that contract. In the case of adultery after marriage, it is lawful for the innocent party to sue out a divorce: and, after the divorce, to marry another, as if the offending party were dead.

1856–1869 · J. C. Ryle, Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Luke 16.13-18

We must take care not to misinterpret the words about divorce and remarriage in this verse. It is perfectly clear from another passage that our Lord allowed divorce in cases of adultery (Matthew 5:32). The act of adultery dissolves the marriage tie and makes those who were one become two again. Neither here nor elsewhere can I see that our Lord regards the remarriage of someone who has been divorced because of fornication as adultery. It is divorce for frivolous reasons which he denounces and marriage after such frivolous divorce which he pronounces to be adultery.

1930–1933 · A. T. Robertson, Word Pictures in the New Testament: Matthew 19.9

Here, as in 5:31f. , a group of scholars deny the genuineness of the exception given by Matthew alone. McNeile holds that "the addition of the saving clause is, in fact, opposed to the spirit of the whole context, and must have been made at a time when the practice of divorce for adultery had already grown up." That in my opinion is gratuitous criticism which is unwilling to accept Matthew's report because it disagrees with one's views on the subject of divorce. He adds: "It cannot be supposed that Matthew wished to represent Jesus as siding with the school of Shammai." Why not, if Shammai on this point agreed with Jesus? Those who deny Matthew's report are those who are opposed to remarriage at all. Jesus by implication, as in 5:31, does allow remarriage of the innocent party, but not of the guilty one. Certainly Jesus has lifted the whole subject of marriage and divorce to a new level, far beyond the petty contentions of the schools of Hillel and Shammai.

Church rules and special cases

13 passages · 10 writers · 300s to 1800s

The Council of Carthage says a man put away from his wife and a woman put away from her husband should not be married to another but remain as they are or be reconciled, and that those who spurn this are forced to do penance. The Apostolic Canons excommunicate a layman who puts away his wife and marries another. Aquinas, Basil, and Leo treat an unbelieving spouse who refuses to cohabit, a woman who unwillingly marries a deserted man, and returning captives, Jerome says a wife who remarried after leaving her husband may have acted from necessity, and Hodge says a person divorced on other than Scriptural grounds who marries again cannot consistently be received to the fellowship of the Church.

419 · Council of Carthage (419), The Code of Canons of the African Church (Council of Carthage, 419) 102

It seemed good that according to evangelical and apostolical discipline a man who had been put away from his wife, and a woman put away from her husband should not be married to another, but so should remain, or else be reconciled the one to the other; but if they spurn this law, they shall be forced to do penance, covering which case we must petition that an imperial law be promulgated.

c. 442–461 · Leo the Great, Letters 159.2

As then you say that through the disasters of war and through the grievous inroads of the enemy families have in certain cases been so broken up that the husbands have been carried off into captivity and their wives remain forsaken, and these latter thinking their own husbands either dead or never likely to be freed from their masters, have contracted another marriage under stress of loneliness, and as, now that the state of things has improved through the Lord’s help, some of those who were thought to have perished have returned, you seem, dear brother, naturally to be in doubt what ought to be settled by us about women thus joined to other husbands. But because we know it is written that “a woman is joined to a man by God,” and again, we are aware of the precept that “what God hath joined, man may not put asunder,” we are bound to hold that the compact of the lawful marriage must be renewed, and after the removal of the evils inflicted by the enemy, what each lawfully had must be restored to him; and we must take every pains that each should recover what is his own.

c. 1252–1256 · Thomas Aquinas, Supplement to the Third Part of the Summa Theologica Suppl., q. 59, a. 5, co.

I answer that, When either husband or wife is converted to the faith the other remaining in unbelief, a distinction must be made. For if the unbeliever be willing to cohabit without insult to the Creator---that is without drawing the other to unbelief---the believer is free to part from the other, but by parting is not permitted to marry again. But if the unbeliever refuse to cohabit without insult to the Creator, by making use of blasphemous words and refusing to hear Christ's name, then if she strive to draw him to unbelief, the believing husband after parting from her may be united to another in marriage. Reply to Objection 1: As stated above (A[2]), the marriage of unbelievers is imperfect, whereas the marriage of believers is perfect and consequently binds more firmly. Now the firmer tie always looses the weaker if it is contrary to it, and therefore the subsequent marriage contracted in the faith of Christ dissolves the marriage previously contracted in unbelief.