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How to be humble

What Christian writers said, from about AD 386 to 1905.

64 passages · 32 writers · 11 centuries

The short answer

Writers say humility comes from seeing God's greatness and one's own sins and weakness, and Spurgeon says the nearer we get to Jesus, the smaller self will appear to be. They give practical rules: take it for granted that you are proud, unlearn what the spirit of the world has taught, do lowly deeds even if unwillingly at first, bear reproof patiently, and use humiliations and one's own faults to resist pride and gain humility. Bernard says humiliation is the way to humility, Benedict names obedience without delay as the first degree of humility, and Cassian lists concealing nothing from one's superior and obedience among the signs of humility. Law says to let no day pass without asking God for the whole spirit of humility, Arndt answers that the means of acquiring this virtue are ardent and devout prayer and constant meditation on Christ crucified, and Spurgeon says we must pray God to make us humble. Spurgeon says the only way to keep right and humble is to be nothing and let Jesus be all in all, and Law says to love humility in all its instances.

Seeing God's greatness and our own sins

28 passages · 21 writers · 300s to 1800s

Teresa of Avila, Owen, Charnock, Tillotson, Boston, Baxter, and Gurnall point to God's greatness, majesty, purity, or holiness as what humbles. Watson, Scougal, Taylor, Louis of Blois, and Chrysostom point to one's sins, failings, nature, or infirmity. Wesley says God humbles by keeping us in constant dependence on him.

1265–1273 · Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica II-II, q. 162, a. 6, ad 1

In this way it is difficult to avoid pride, since it takes occasion even from good deeds, as stated (A[5], ad 3). Hence Augustine says pointedly that it "lies in wait for good deeds"; and it is written (Ps. 141:4): "In the way wherein I walked, the proud [*Cf. Ps. 139:6, 'The proud have hidden a net for me.'] [Vulg.: 'they'] have hidden a snare for me." Hence no very great gravity attaches to the movement of pride while creeping in secretly, and before it is discovered by the judgment of reason: but once discovered by reason, it is easily avoided, both by considering one's own infirmity, according to Ecclus. 10:9, "Why is earth and ashes proud?" and by considering God's greatness, according to Job 15:13, "Why doth thy spirit swell against God?" as well as by considering the imperfection of the goods on which man prides himself, according to Is. 40:6, "All flesh is grass, and all the glory thereof as the flower of the field"; and farther on (Is. 64:6), "all our justices" are become "like the rag of a menstruous woman."

1577 · Teresa of Avila, The Interior Castle 1.2.10

I believe we shall never learn to know ourselves except by endeavouring to know God, for, beholding His greatness we are struck by our own baseness, His purity shows our foulness, and by meditating on His humility we find how very far we are from being humble.

1677 · Henry Scougal, The Life of God in the Soul of Man 3

And now, however we conceal our failings from one another, yet sure we are conscious of them ourselves, and some serious reflections upon them would much qualify and allay the vanity of our spirits. Thus holy men have come really to think worse of themselves, than of any other person in the world: not but that they knew that gross and scandalous vices are, in their nature, more heinous than the surprisals of temptations and infirmity; but because they were much more intent on their own miscarriages than on those of their neighbours, and did consider all the aggravations of the one, and every thing that might be supposed to diminish and alleviate the other. But it is well observed by a pious writer, that the deepest and most pure humility doth not so much arise from the consideration of our own faults and defects, as from a calm and quiet contemplation of the divine purity and goodness. Our spots never appear so clearly, as when we place them before this infinite light; and we never seem less in our own eyes, than when we look down upon ourselves from on high.

Practices, lowly deeds, and accepting humiliation

23 passages · 14 writers · 1200s to 1900s

Law says to take it for granted that you are proud, and de Sales says to do lowly, humble deeds even if you perform them unwillingly at first. Taylor says to accustom yourself to bear reproof patiently, Florentius Radewin, quoted by Thomas a Kempis, says one who wants to progress in humility must often set before him hard and menial tasks, and de Caussade says to use your faults to acquire a fresh degree of humility. Aquinas says one prone to self-exaltation may make moderate use of humiliations as a medicine, and Spurgeon says that when God gives growth in grace it will be your safety to be as little as ever you were.

1608 · Francis de Sales, Introduction to the Devout Life 4.10

Do as many lowly, humble deeds as lie in your power, even if you perform them unwillingly at first; for by this means you will form a habit of humility, and you will weaken your vanity, so that when temptation arises, you will be less predisposed to yield, and stronger to resist.

1650 · Jeremy Taylor, The Rule and Exercises of Holy Living 2.4.3

Think not thyself better for anything that happens to thee from without. For although thou mayest, by gifts bestowed upon thee, be better than another, as one horse is better than another, that is of more use to others; yet as thou art a man, thou hast nothing to commend thee to thyself but that only by which thou art a man, that is, by what thou choosest and refusest. 2. Humility consists not in railing against thyself, or wearing mean clothes, or going softly and submissively; but in hearty and real evil or mean opinion of thyself. Believe thyself an unworthy person heartily, as thou believest thyself to be hungry, or poor, or sick, when thou art so. 3. Whatsoever evil thou sayest of thyself, be content that others should think to be true: and if thou callest thyself fool, be not angry if another say so of thee. For if thou thinkest so truly, all men in the world desire other men to be of their opinion; and he is an hypocrite that accuses himself before others, with an intent not to be believed. But he that calls himself intemperate, foolish, lustful, and is angry when his neighbours call him so, is both a false and a proud person. 4. Love to be concealed, and little esteemed: be content to want praise, never being troubled when thou art slighted or undervalued; for thou canst not undervalue thyself, and if thou thinkest so meanly as there is reason, no contempt will seem unreasonable, and therefore it will be very tolerable. 5. Never be ashamed of thy birth, or thy parents, or thy trade, or thy present employment, for the meanness or poverty of any of them; and when there is an occasion to speak of them, such an occasion as would invite you to speak of anything that pleases you, omit it not, but speak as readily and indifferently of thy meanness as of thy greatness.

1729 · William Law, A Serious Call to a Devout and Holy Life 16

Now in order to begin, and set out well, in the practice of humility, you must take it for granted that you are proud, that you have all your life been more or less infected with this unreasonable temper. You should believe also, that it is your greatest weakness, that your heart is most subject to it, that it is so constantly stealing upon you, that you have reason to watch and suspect its approaches in all your actions. For this is what most people, especially new beginners in a pious life, may with great truth think of themselves. For there is no one vice that is more deeply rooted in our nature, or that receives such constant nourishment from almost everything that we think or do: there being hardly anything in the world that we want or use, or any action or duty of life, but pride finds some means or other to take hold of it. So that at what time soever we begin to offer ourselves to God, we can hardly be surer of anything, than that we have a great deal of pride to repent of. If, therefore, you find it disagreeable to your mind to entertain this opinion of yourself, and that you cannot put yourself amongst those that want to be cured of pride, you may be as sure as if an angel from heaven had told you, that you have not only much, but all your humility to seek. For you can have no greater sign of a more confirmed pride, than when you think that you are humble enough. He that thinks he loves God enough, shows himself to be an entire stranger to that holy passion; so he that thinks he has humility enough, shows that he is not so much as a beginner in the practice of true humility.

Obedience, spiritual guides, and prayer for humility

13 passages · 11 writers · 400s to 1800s

Bernard says humiliation is the way to humility, and Benedict names obedience without delay as the first degree of humility. Cassian lists concealing nothing from one's superior among the signs of humility, and Taylor advises one who would preserve humility to choose a spiritual person to whom he discloses his thoughts. Law and Wesley say to ask God for the whole spirit of humility, Arndt names ardent and devout prayer and meditation on Christ crucified as means of acquiring this virtue, Murray says to believe that Christ gives his humility, and Spurgeon says we must pray God to make us humble.

c. 530 · Benedict of Nursia, The Rule of St. Benedict 7

"If I was not humbly minded, but exalted my soul; as a child that is weaned is towards his mother so shalt Thou reward my soul" (Ps 130[131]:2). Hence, brethren, if we wish to reach the greatest height of humility, and speedily to arrive at that heavenly exaltation to which ascent is made in the present life by humility, then, mounting by our actions, we must erect the ladder which appeared to Jacob in his dream, by means of which angels were shown to him ascending and descending (cf Gen 28:12). Without a doubt, we understand this ascending and descending to be nothing else but that we descend by pride and ascend by humility. The erected ladder, however, is our life in the present world, which, if the heart is humble, is by the Lord lifted up to heaven. For we say that our body and our soul are the two sides of this ladder; and into these sides the divine calling hath inserted various degrees of humility or discipline which we must mount.

c. 1120–1140 · Bernard of Clairvaux, Some Letters of Saint Bernard (selection of 66) 24.11

Do not think that all this serves little to the profit of religion, since humility, which humiliation teaches us to practise, is the foundation of the entire spiritual fabric. Thus humiliation is the way to humility, as patience to peace, as reading is to knowledge. If you long for the virtue of humility, you must not flee from the way of humiliation. For if you do not allow yourself to be humiliated, you cannot attain to humility.

1605–1610 · Johann Arndt, True Christianity 2.21

If it be asked, What is the means for acquiring this virtue, and by what way may one arrive at so great a treasure, which abounds so richly in the gifts of celestial grace? I answer, that there are two: first, ardent and devout prayer; and secondly, constant meditation on Christ crucified. Let us look earnestly to the passion and death of Christ, and let us meditate on it, as on a holy Book of life, till this root of the Christian virtues, with all which accompany it, grow up day by day in our hearts, as in a fruitful and well-cultivated soul.